Let’s Give Ourselves A Break by Lindsay Roberts
Even when we’re our own worst enemy, God is still our best friend. And He Who has begun a good work in you will complete it. (Philippians 1:6 NKJV)
One day when Jordan was just a baby, I went out the back door of our house to my car that was in the driveway. As I got in the car, I remember thinking, “Now something’s missing. What is it?” And suddenly, I realized, “It’s the baby! Go get the baby!”
I had forgotten to put Jordan in the car because I was a new mother and I wasn’t used to having a child. Now I was only a few steps away from the house where Jordan was. It was a really dumb thing I did, and thank God nothing bad happened to my child.
But I can’t tell you how much and how long I persecuted myself over that. I thought I had to be the worst mother who had ever lived! Day and night the devil tormented me and I tormented myself about what a terrible person I was.
Don’t help the devil
And then I realized, hey, this needs to stop! I made a mistake, I repented to God, and I asked Him to help me think clearly and with the mind of Christ. But it led me to realize how quickly we can begin to be a “help” to satan in beating ourselves up emotionally. If we’re not careful, satan can use us to abuse ourselves!
I think that all of us, as women, have done that to ourselves at one time or another because we are more emotionally made. But I want you to know today that the spirit of persecuting yourself and beating yourself up is not from God. The God of the Bible is not a God of persecution, but a God of love and forgiveness…a God who wants to give you a new start in your life.
You’re Not a Failure
We all make mistakes every day. I was reading a book recently about Thomas Edison, and I learned that along his way to inventing the light bulb he made 6,000 mistakes! But when someone would remind him that he’d been a failure 6,000 times, he never agreed with that statement. He always said, “No. I just learned 6,000 ways not to make a light bulb!”
Failing doesn’t make you a failure! When you go to bed at night, you can get on your face before God and say, “Lord, I’m sorry for the mistakes I’ve made today. Please give me a new start tomorrow and help me do it right.” And according to the Word of God, He not only forgives your sins, or mistakes, He also forgets them (Micah 7:19).
No condemnation in Christ
Once you’ve given your mistakes to God, it’s important to remember that He has forgiven you and given you a new start. When the devil tries to make you feel guilty for your past, hold fast to God’s promise in Romans 8:1, which says there is now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.
I believe that when we keep a positive, Word-centered, determined attitude and allow God to work in us, He can complete the good work He has begun in all of our lives.
And if God is for us, who can ever be against us? (Romans 8:31 NLT).
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